cant live with em,cant live witout em

Another thing trouybling me off late is my losing disinterest in making surface level connections with ppl.I mean I have never been this attracted to ,comfortable with ppl in the ERI sense – never had I experienced this level of sharing. Now I feel the superficial thing is a waste of time. And given how most relations are, where will I find these meaningful deep relations? How can I find these ppl who are willing,ready and want to talk at that level? Talking woith ppl ,specially in the dorm is irritating.