New year priorities: Priority 1 ?

Ok,so I have been thinking abt so many things. Like now that I realize I want a deep relationship with one girl, why don’t I do anything abt it? Why don’t I put fight – go out,meet girls,etc and at least try to get this lady. I don’t know – like all things I see a classic tradeoff here…What I need the most in this girl is comfort to share and a lot of respect for her. Both things are not one can find straightaway, or typically looks for, when girl hunting. These are things you encounter ( I would imagine) when you have known someone to an extent. The things that attract you to strangers is looks, mannerisms.So, in marketing terms, there is a classic channel-attribute mismatch here…hehe..so what do I do now. One solution is to hunt girls and spend time – the classic inoptimal solution to this NP hard problem. But the critical in optimality here- time- is currently at a premium and will continue to be that way. Ok while on this,let me make a list of things I need in the girl:

Sweet :)

Caring – specially for others in a true sense.

I should be able to respect her.

I don’t know how true this is but at this point of time I don’t really care abt how she looks – or so I think

Is this too much to ask for? L